Appreciate to be appreciated

Wah..everyone wish to be appereciated even from profesisonals level to the workers level. But how we express and show our appreciation anyway? Is it by saying "thank you" is good enough? I believe a lot of people doesn't realized it when being appreciated and not appreciating helps. Let me define my understading of appreciate at the first place: It's form of words, materials, sign, gesture or anything that responsed to people's feeling/ emotions. Definately A Good Feeling. Feel happy becaused of helping other. That the emotion to deliver.

In the office a lot of professionals even a tea lady are familar with word "thank you" after being assisted. Somehow, the "thank you" culture only meaningless fo some cases. For instance, the tea lady/ cleaner enter the room of big boss and do cleaning. And after clean the desk, floor, vacuming and so on..the tea lady left the room and say "thank you" to the big boss. Hope that the bonus will getting higher this year. May I correct this situation of giving appreciation is definately wrong! and the intention of doing works definately no sincere at all.

Just came cross my minds that even we appreciate people, we have really need to meant it. Good expression of voice, good tone of voice.. rather than say "thank you!!!*&*(^()"
Well, what i intend to write here are the importance of appeciate people in the right way and manners. Doesn't matter how we say it, but how we meant it.

Appreciate also can be done by giving flowers, presents, cards or anykind of arts to express our good feeling towards the help given. My observations seeing peoples through appreciation are in so sorry state. They might really meant their appreciation but somehow they did wrong way. For instance again; Boss asking their staff to urgently finish off the work. He is really appreciate their staff by done so. But is it good enough for them to obtain high mark on appraisal and promotions? I think it is much better for boss to discover the meaning of appreciate. Yah, of course it is the designated work for them to done it. But, I prefer if the staff is being appreciated and had a good feeling doing the works. Rather than wait end of year to obtained their remuneration. Boss appreciated their staff very well, but the way appeciation they might have done should be polished. I believe that the word "Good feeling" to others is very importance. Sometime, "thank you" is means a lot.

When we have good feeling, everything we do, we will do the best and full of sinceres. I encourage myself and everybody when being helped, we might repeat their favor many times only after they are smiled and denied it. Can works?